This blog post is about the energetics of receiving as a woman.
I believe that, as an act of rebellion against a system that devalues the feminine, it’s vital that women relearn how to receive.
Like most young women, up until my late twenties, I had a habit of putting my needs at the bottom of the list. This meant that I found it difficult to receive anything: help, compliments money, because my culture had conditioned me to believe that good women were supposed to be selfless.
And yet there was also a desire within me to thrive meaning that there was always conflict between my innate desire and capacity to be fully expressed, and my socialisation.
This really showed up for me when I first started my business - receiving felt so unnatural, I cock-blocked myself repeatedly, which led to a...
This blog post is about why niching isn't always best practice in online business.
I think the biggest BS I’ve heard about online business is that the only way to succeed is to 'pick a profitable niche' - a niche being a subset category of people, such as 'corporate women who want to lose 10 lbs' or 'divorced women in their 30s who want to feel more confident.'
Here’s what I know to be true.
If your business is only about making quick money, do it - it’ll serve you for a while.
But if you see your business as a means of social revolution and personal quantum expansion, both spiritually and financially, then don’t.
Because many business coaches are far too quick to try to fit you in a box. And they'll even try to convince you to do it yourself.
Me and my clients haven't created sustainable and profitable businesses from picking a fucking niche. We've done it from getting crystal clear on our dharma, choosing to create...
This blog post is about bringing sacred activism into your life and biz.
I believe that our personal development and spiritual awakening means nothing if we’re not here for the reclamation of the whole of humanity. And there’s a lot going on in today’s modern world that we should definitely not be ok with, and commit to changing.
Sacred activism is using our inner work to create wider shifts and changes for the whole of humanity. It’s about leaving our legacy, in a way that gives our life meaning and purpose.
People, communities, animals, ecosystems - they need us. And lets face it, the predominantly white affluent males who’ve been in power have done such a bad job at being custodians of our planet, it's high time we take a seat at the table and start creating some real change.
Here are 4...
This blog post is about making sure you're getting paid for your content.
Something that really pisses me off in the business coaching world because it doesn't take into account women's collective trauma is the idea that the more free value you give in your content marketing, the more your business will thrive.
That is NOT what I've experienced.
Yes, we get to offer out free value because it is a way of building connections and trust, but not at the expense of our boundaries, mental healthy and sense of sovereignty.
Women deserve to be paid FIRST.
And the business commandment to 'keep giving free value' triggers the collective feminine's deepest trauma: that to be worthy, we must give of ourselves over and over again.
I can't tell you how many of my clients have come to me who're putting more effort into their unpaid content than their paid content, and wonder why they feel so stretched and underpaid.
Let me spell it out: our society profits on the unpaid physical,...
This blog post is about how to experience quantum results in any area of your life.
I am celebrating!! A few weeks ago, my debut book The Way of the Priestess: A Reclamation of Feminine Power and Divine Purpose was released into the world. On day one of its release, we sold over 400 copies and hit one of amazon’s bestseller lists. Now I’m not going to be one of those twats that raves about her book being a bestseller - in comparison to New York Times bestseller lists, its really not, but considering that I have a small audience and I marketed the book myself, this is HUGE.
I want to share with you a little more about my process and what I believe is the key to experiencing quantum results - in your own life.
I think its very important to define for you my personal definition of success, especially in this context.
Truth is, I already felt I had successfully written a book, because the process of writing and putting the book out there was a journey of...
This blog post is about sharing the key mindsets that ensures long-term biz success.
Have you ever got caught up in the numbers, feeling like the number of followers, clients, or sign ups you have isn't yet enough?
And then you go down the downward spiral of thinking that you’re never gonna be able to make your business work consistently unless you constantly bust your ass off.
If this resonates - try not to blame yourself - we’re conditioned from childhood to believe that if someone has more than us, be it toys or exam marks, they’re better than us. So you can hardly blame yourself for feeling like a failure when the whole of social media is banging on about how successful they are (and they’ve got the number of followers to prove it).
But the truth is, whilst you’re beating yourself up or freaking out, you’re missing out on so many opportunities.
You already have women in your community who need you. You already have clients or students...
This blog post is about avoiding business burnout.
Priestess: do not build your business to be a slave to it.
Most business owners unintentionally recreate the internalised toxic narratives of capitalism, without even realising it.
This looks like:
- The more I produce, the more worthy I am.
- The more I have, the more successful I will be (& if I don’t make lots of money, I’m worthless).
- I must always hustle to achieve.
A word of warning: operating from this conditioning will never bring you sustainable success or happiness.
And if you do find yourself on this hamster wheel, also recognise that it's not your fault - our school education system literally conditions us to love life in this way.
But now that you know that it doesn't have to be this way, let you life business be an act of rebellion.
Here are three things to focus on:
1. Meaning & Purpose. Choose to offer services that light you up, are enjoyable to fulfil, & make use of your...